Inspirational speaking

You have to give yourself strength, you have to learn how to push yourself without any one guidance,Guide yourself to the right direction. Don’t fill your brain up with things you know its not right to do or not the route to go in life. Be amazing, be spontaneous, be uplifting to others. Don’t let nothing stop you from being the best person in your life.

You are the winner, you are the leader, you are what makes you, YOU. If you having a bad day, throw it off, smile that you are able to still be standing, smile because it’s only just a bad day, we will go through the hardest obstacles, and the toughest battles that will try to bring us to our breaking points.

Think of yourself being already in first place. Already financially and mentally stabled. Sometimes you have to live into existence, because if you work hard enough then you will be exactly where you want to be. Keep that pride you have because it is a lot of people out here that will steal it from you intentionally.  

See you can feel lost, and it’s okay, that’s why you have to express yourself to yourself, because only yourself, YOU, can make yourself out to a successful individual. Life is tricky, and life is extremely tough for the strongest people and for the weak, but you have to know that being weak isn’t going to satisfy you. What is going to satisfy you, is making sure you don’t fall back into that dark hole. 

                             -QUEEN OF EXPRESSIONS

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Why men talk so down on us black women?

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So many say that Black women are to demanding, ghetto, and have bad attitudes, and always want to be there man mother. Well, i’m going to give you an reason why black women are so passionate about themselves. 

Hi, my name is S.B. and i’m going to open up to you about my beautiful strong black women. Black women aren’t what a lot of men make us out to be. We are very secure over our significant other. When it comes to thinking we are our man mother, that is definitely not true. See, the thing is men still act like a little boy, but us women? We are very much matured then they are.

Some men, i’m not going to say all, are lazy, we always have to clean up after them, or tell them to pick up after they selves, or always have to baby them and fill out paper work, and etc. Which, is not a problem, but that goes to show who really is the one taking care of things around the house.

So, it’s not technically we are purposely trying to be their parent, it just comes naturally, because we like things how we want it. Men don’t realize that, because a lot of men are stuck in there ways and it’s ridiculous. Black woman are emotionally fighters. We don’t give up on who we love, we have the mindset that we are going to be a team and going to stick by our man side. black-couple-fighting.jpg

Far as being ghetto, we aren’t ghetto, I feel that it is totally disrespectful to us women. Just because we talk with a high pitch voice, or talk in a certain manner, doesn’t mean that we are ghetto and different from others. I have came across plenty of women of all ethnicity’s that are loud, or have a very high pitch voice, terrible attitude and very demanding, but quiet as it kept, black women get pulled down by black men everyday. Everyday their is an excuse behind a black brother, on what and how black women should be.

 

” WHAT BLACK MEN DON’T KNOW ABOUT BLACK WOMEN” 

PART 2 TO BE CONTINUED . . . . . . . .

New Year, Fresh Start 😊

Happy New Year 🎆Everyone. It is now 2018, 2017 has been long and maybe not the best, but I am truly grateful. I hope that everyone have goals and things they want to accomplish this year.

My New Years is starting off great so far. I have had positive vibes all around me. I have started on my set of goals I wrote down for myself, and I have been more happy and less angry.

Yes, it’s hard to just change over night, but it’s a new year, start fresh. Forgive those who hurt you, and love those who still rocking with you.

Make sure that you stay focus, don’t let nothing or nobody get in between your dreams. Educate yourself more and don’t worry yourself about things that’s not worthy to.

Anyways, Happy New Years Everyone💋-S.B.

Work & Stress Problems #Thursday

(Work & Stress)

Seriously how many can say they are overwhelmed or at least have been? Well i typically can say that majority of the people that are busy and consistently doing something productive with there life are. They always say hard work pays off, but at the same time hard work is a kick in the “ASS”!. I always and always will be a big supporter for people that really go hard to succeed or that have already succeeded. 

Although all this hard work that you lovely women do, try to stay as strong as you are. It can be times you want to give up, and it can be times you want more but hate the fact it’s so much pressure on you. 

Honestly, I am 27 years old, and i spent my life doing so many things i just overwhelmed my own self. I finally decided at 26 that i wanted to blog, because since my job consist of me sitting down at a desk, all i do is sit at work, so i spend most of my time on social media and writing in my notes on thoughts and other things.

It came to me that i always been a writer i just didn’t know it. I’m probably not as experienced or as smart as other writers lol, just kidding, but i know that i can sit all day in write about so many different things, and i do so much research that i teach my own self words i never learned and other things i never knew growing up. 

I amaze myself everyday because i know that i have the ability, the brains, the wisdom, and the strength to be whatever i want to be. I have giving up on so many things in life, because i felt that i was dumb, I felt that i would never be on the same level as others. For some odd reason, I just thought so negative about myself. I prayed for strength and stability, and slowly but surely things have been changing. 

I always have been the type of woman, to speak to others in give them the best advice, although i never took it, but i enjoyed seeing other people that take my advice in, and it absolutely worked. I am a strong woman, i just had to believe it. It really is my past that had me insecure, and of course the company of people i had around me. I learned you have to stop being negative and also let the negative people exit out your life. 

We all as people have to learn that we might all be the same far as humans, but we are not the same far as mentally. We all have our own personalities, and when it comes to your work setting you might not click with everybody you meet. Dealing with negative people will make your work very hard. I definitely can say that i have lost one of my jobs behind drama, and although i bounced back in got another job, that made me realize i want to start my own business, and also be a writer. 

Find something that makes you relieved everyday when you get off work, or even on your off days. Find something that gives you peace and hope that the stress you get working will come down soon. Pray and keep god name in vein. Also, if you need to vent do so, sometimes we need to just talk out our worries and our pain. Talk to someone you know that genuinely cares.

     Good Day Bloggers, hope all is well.

 

F A S H I O N –

My definition of fashion:

Fun

Artistic

Sassy

Happy

Independent

Outgoing

Natural

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People think that fashion is very hard, well it’s not. Fashion is more simple then what people thinks. Fashion is a popular style or practice, especially in clothing, footwear, accessories, makeup, hairstyle and body. Fashion is a distinctive and often constant trend in the style in which a person dresses. Fashion is not about matching or wearing the same color from head to toe. You can wear 3 different colors and your wardrobe will still look fresh. 

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If you ever want to look at runway models are seek any kind of sense of fashion you can look in the VOGUE magazine, one of my faves, pretty popular. Their is also Glamour, Bazaar, and Elle, these are great magazines also.

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